Tuesday, October 28, 2014

How can you have no water when it's pouring rain?

We had to go on divisions (split up and go with a different missionary), much to our dismay...We were so sad to be separated, me and my companion! It was awful! I hate divisions, it's like a temporary divorce. But we survived and celebrated our being together again with lunch at Burger King :)

But we've still been having a ton of rain lately so the río has risen and fallen and risen and fallen. But when we were on divisions towards the beginning of the week, the river had risen a ton and the Centroamericana was flooded. So there were a bunch of people in the streets and there were trucks from the municipalidad (town) handing out "provisiones" and people yelling to "bring the kids". Then we passed by a house where there was a guy chucking huge buckets of water out from his solar that had flooded. It was literally like a pool. It was crazy, it was like a disaster movie. It smelled awful and I felt so weird walking through everything in my clean clothes and once again it's like "Hi I'm a missionary, I don't have food but I have the kind of food that will make it so you never go spiritually hungry!" You feel sort of helpless in those situations. But just made me more grateful for what I have. 

One night all of our citas (appointments) were falling through and we were getting pretty discouraged. I looked around and felt like I caught a glimpse of the infierno (hell). Darkness, a trash filled river that smells like who knows what, people shouting, smoke, creepy men walking past, drunks on the other side of the road, random lights coming from different workshops, and as always, the garbage fires...it was pretty interesting. 

Decided this week that N___ just needs to be translated. That man is perfect! Anytime we get discouraged, we look forward to visiting him. He's always making us laugh and he's always so happy! He's been having some health problems lately so we've been praying for him, but he's plugging right along and doing his best :) He's making me a Honduran flag :)

We did a lot more contacting this week and we ended up finding the soccer players of Progreso :) They come from all over Honduras to represent Progreso and they play in the stadium in the area of the elders on the other side of Centro. It was really cool to talk with them and then hear the shouts from the stadium that night and to know that they were playing. 

We taught the gospel principles class yesterday and we taught about work and personal responsibility. We focused a lot on finding a balance between work and family and giving appropriate time to family. We used a few Mormon Messages and they split into groups and we put little questions on backs of chairs like in primary and everything :) It was a really great class!

The stake here had a great Relief Society activity on Saturday and we went for like an hour or so before a baptism of the elders. It was a great success! Each ward brought the crafts or manualidades that they had done throughout the year. They also shared food. So that of course made it more of like a downtown market place to be honest. I don't know why, but they decided to have a guy come talk in a microphone the whole time saying a bunch of tonterías (silly things). It was honestly just more useless noise but everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves. I swear women go nuts when there's food and music and a ton of people. It's like some inner thing that comes out and they get into this weird like "girls catching a bouquet" thing. So there were lines and lines for the food and we were having to like squeeze ourselves through the crowds to get to other places. It was fun though and the crafts were really neat! Some of the foods were "arroz con leche", "pan de pan" and some little pastelito thing. 

I've been helping my companion with her English lately. We had to learn the hard lesson this week that in order to understand and learn another language, you have to understand your own...So it's like teaching the gospel, you can't teach about something that you don't know for yourself. We established what an adverb really is. I think from that point my comp got a little frustrated and suddenly was correcting my Spanish the rest of the day. Little frustrating but you just roll with it and take the corrections. Learning a different language is humbling and I think that's the hard lesson that Latinos learn because they hate to be wrong and don't like to be laughed at. No one does, but especially them. So that's usually the biggest challenge I feel like, is helping them get over that fear. Then they realize that us Nortes deal with feeling inadequate with the language 24/7, not just 1 hour a day, and that it always requires practice, and that yeah, maybe people are going to laugh at you...but it's part of learning, and it's hard and it's humbling.

You know you're a missionary serving in a third world country when you ask a member to come with you to a cita (appointment), but they cant because they have to go kill a gallo (chicken). That was pretty nasty. To see the member leave with the poor animal and come back with a huge bowl of who knows what...but we were able to have a lesson with a member! :) She ended up making a soup later.

During my personal study this morning I was reading in Alma but then I got distracted by the Bible Dictionary and got so interested in it! It was so cool! Seeing that "mammon" basically means "riches". So in the scripture we read that we can't serve God and mammon o sea que we can't serve God and have part of our heart in riches, or things that won't last. But the definition for locusts made me laugh..."having the taste of shrimp". But really though, the Bible Dictionary is really neat and helps uno a entender todo mejor.  (one understand everything better)

But Saturday afternoon we realized there was no water to fill the pila (font) for the baptisms of the elders! With all the rain and flooding, there was no water! So we said a prayer and thought of what we could do. We decided it would be better to wait the next day instead of hauling water from a place close by...but that night the other elders had their baptism and they decided to try and haul water so we did! We went to a neighbor across the street from the church and hauled water from their pila using the huge jugs they distribute the water in. After about 20 minutes of hauling water, the water came back and they were able to fill the pila and have the baptism! I was soaked and my back hurt, but it was cool to be a part of that miracle :) 

Hope everyone has a great week! We find out today who has changes! I'll be sure to take a ton of pictures :) Even N___ is praying that I don't have changes! I wish you guys could see how me and my comp are. We have a lot of fun together and we get along and work so well together. We treat each other really well and are always helping each other out. It's really great. But who knows if we'll be split up :( I'll do what the Lord needs me to do...Love you guys!

Love,
Hermana Despain